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Thank the January 2024 You

December 16, 20243 min read

Why Do We Do This to Ourselves?

I’ve been wondering why we spend a chunk of December focusing on what we haven’t done rather than what we have done. 2025 resolutions and the what-I-should-dos or what-I-should-have-dones are knocking at our doors. A few days ago, I found myself languishing in the self-pity of: you should eat more protein, you should lift heavier weights, you should volunteer more, you should blah, blah, blah. Then a thought occurred to me: what would my January 2024 self say to my December 2024 self that is encouraging and positive? My entire demeanor shifted when I thought about this: I migrated from feeling empty and not-good-enough to feeling a sense of pride in focusing on what I actually did well.

I Blame the Holidays

The holiday season, one would gather, would be a time of cheer and counting of the blessings. It does this, kind of, but beyond the signs people have posted on their porches proclaiming “Believe!” and “Cheers!”, there's an undercurrent of foreshadowing about the upcoming new year. Thanksgiving tries to usher in gratitude, but that seems a bit more family-oriented (think, “I’m grateful for my horn-of-plenty-clad table with healthy family members all lovingly smiling at each other.”). I’m not knocking Thanksgiving, but that type of gratitude is fleeting and seems to end when Black Friday rears its money-grubbing head. We’re still with our holiday cheer, but the excitement and sometimes dread-inducing pressure of the new year looms like a creepy little elf.

Scarcity: A Nasty Little Rascal

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Switching to what we HAVE accomplished this year instantly lightens the mood. When we laser focus on the gaps in our lives, we are directing our attention to what we lack. Scarcity is a nasty little rascal and creates a sense of not-belonging, never having enough, and an overall feeling of emptiness. Our society makes sure we feel as if we don’t have what we need: cue our obsessive shopping and grabbing for more, more, more. Fighting against scarcity thinking really challenges us as it’s just not the norm.

Dear January 2024 Self,

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My proposition for this week is that we stop and revisit our January 2024 selves. That girl who greeted the new year with an anxious smile, excited about new challenges and new opportunities. That girl who set New Year’s resolutions with gusto, and always with the most grand and authentic of intentions. That girl who was YOU and is STILL YOU. What props can you give her? What are you proud of her for doing, saying, leaving, adopting, understanding, creating, celebrating, grieving, absorbing, learning? She’s in there and loves that you see her. You have grown tremendously, and I am proud of you for recognizing that.

Here's To The You That You're Becoming

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Here’s to you spending the week before Christmas with the January 2024 You and letting her feel the love. When we run from accomplishment to accomplishment, we miss the moments of reflection which give us the opportunity to truly stop for a minute and appreciate our hard work. Allowing yourself a small window to feel true gratitude for yourself is a gift.

You're stronger than you think you are, and I've always got your back.

with love, Suzanne


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Suzanne Hanna, Ed.S., ALPC, is a mom of two big kids, two Australian Shepherds, and lots of chickens. She is also a wife, life coach, former high school assistant principal, bibliophile, always an English teacher, lover of hiking and nature, and a great cook. As a trusted professional with 25+ years of experience mentoring hundreds of girls, Suzanne connects with girls and provides a space for them to feel heard and supported. Guiding and listening without judgment or shame, Suzanne serves as a coach, encourager, truth-teller, and compass for positive behavioral change.

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